Four years ago I reconnected with a family member that I had not seen since I was a kid. My dad's first cousin, "Aunt Gina," lives in the New York City area; her apartment in Jersey City is a twenty minute train ride from Manhattan. For the past three years, my daughter Elizabeth and I have stayed with my Aunt Gina for a week in the spring. I love to travel. The first year we visited, in 2014, Elizabeth was five years old. That first year was a litmus test, to see what Elizab